The Complete Man…

We women are made to believe that life can be changed… men can be changed… if only we want them to change… if only we give some love… from romantic movies… till music… till even novels… But im telling you ladies… there is only one place that you can find the complete man… its in make-belief-nostalgic-advertisements of Raymonds “The Complete Man”… cuz just like a happy woman is a myth… so is the complete man!!!

We ladies are in the habit of falling in love with men who run after us & toil for us… we don’t fall in love with men who are above our standards… take it from me in writing… we ALWAYS fall in love with men who pursue us cuz they know that we are better than them… they may have the muscle… they may even have the looks… but we are the ones who always have the senses… we never love a complete man… we always love men who we wish to complete…

We take them up as projects… guys that we can fix… & slowly & steadily, we fix them right… they become perfect, not by nature, but because of our devotion… then, our “then cute concerns” now start to become “interruptions”… our “then words of strength” now become “nagging”… every one has flaws… you do… I do… but everyone does not have a heart over their mind… so when your concerns become need for space… you end up with a broken heart… because he has his mind over his heart!!!

Its not their fault… they have been designed to never be complete… & when they become complete for you… they move ahead & become a project to another woman… its my sincere appeal to all the women with a broken heart (esp YOU)… please DO NOT fall in love with a project… no more pieces to put together… no more riddles to solve… fall in love with someone who loves your flaws… fall in love with someone whose flaws you love… DO fall in love… but fall in love only with a man who completes you, not vice-versa!!!