Retrospection

As humans, it is our birth right to be wanting what is on the other side… it is our birth right to consider the grass greener the other side… it is our birth right to be forever confused… it is our birth right to cry for things that are not in our control… it is our birth right to want something so bad & then when we get it, wanting to run away from it… actually, its as simple as this… In winters, u want sunshine… when sun shines too bright, u want Ray Bans :D... i mean shade!!!

But, life has it own dynamics... everyone learns to cope as & when… when you sit back, relax & retrospect… you realize… whatever happened… happened for the best… but that doesn’t mean that you stop putting in your effort… life changes not by its own will (what you call destiny)… but by your own… if life had its own way… then there would be no fights, no dramas, no efforts, just births… life’s scripts’ play… & then death… death that is peaceful… easy... but you don’t run on an autopilot mode… life is HARDER…

You make your own decisions... then blame destiny or someone else… when you think over it… you think, your effort was useless… but, like they say… nothing is absolutely useless… if nothing, it can be used as a bad example… so retrospect… dig deep… dig a little deeper… & retrospect on every aspect of your life… every right & wrong action of yours… & you will realize… the lesson that it has to offer… good, bad or ugly… your life is what you made it… so retrospect & see what you did instead of blaming others…

Why don’t you say & “mean” that you OWE your victory to another when you so conveniently blame them for your fall??? Retrospect & realize… YOU can make the change… YOU are the only one who is driving your life… YOU are the only one responsible for how it is shaping up… Don’t blame another… JUST RESTROPECT & mend your life!!!