Thursday, May 5, 2011

Time Heals… Huh???


Time is a healer, trust me… haven’t you heard that like a million times… but is time a good healer??? Ummm… good healer… what the heck is that? A good healer is what heals you so well that even if you see the causes of your wounds 5 decades later, you don’t hurt, you don’t even flinch an eye… infact, it makes no difference to you… so temme… is time a good healer???

I read this as status on multiple people’s wall, so im not sure, who came up with this one… but it read… “A broken heart is what makes life so wonderful five years later, when you see that special guy in an elevator and he is fat and smoking and saying 'Long time no see'”;))
Well… does that mean time is a good healer?
Of course you don’t hurt… infact you’re happy that you’re still hot & they are not…
You don’t flinch an eye… in fact, you stare at his baldness & his belly…
Does it make a difference to you??? Ummmm… do you thank your stars that your not with him or do you feel, serves him right… for not being by my side???
If time is a good healer why are you even thinking anything wrt him?

You had such a crush on this girl since you were in 9th standard, you could kill for her.. die for her… she was your true love… the one you sincerely wanted to be with forever & ever… but before you could ask her out, you got to know that your very best friend is dating her… you back out… 9th… 10th… 11th… 12th… college 1st yr… 2nd yr… 3rd year… you haven’t seen her for 7 years… you have moved on… have had your share of love affairs… but suddenly, you & your gf bump into them at a party…
you don’t flinch an eye… your thing is prettier than her eh…
you don’t hurt… 7 years & 5 breakups has made u strong eh???
But why do you drink like a fish today if it doesn’t make a difference to you???
Do you really believe time is a good healer?

Time heals… yea right!!! Time does not heal… Time CANNOT heal TRUE LOVE… it just acts as a fix… heart is like a mirror… if it breaks, you can join it & still look at it… but the joint is forever visible… & try run ur finger though it… you will bleed!!! Time is not a healer… its just an avoidance!!! It makes you think your strong, cuz if it was true love, you will hurt… forever!!!

18 comments:

  1. I do believe time is a good healer...it teaches u lessons...it teaches u to love urself more....
    N i frankly dont believe dat true love is somethin which is shown in " veer zaraa " types movies...
    I dont agree to the thought that if my love was true for her I will shed a tear on seeing her after 5 or 50 yrs...Naah..not at all...
    It was true love bcoz i needed time to get out of her n get back to my life ...be confident again..be in a position to trust peope again...
    Pheww..loads more to say but filhaal itna hi..aap confuse ho jaaoge varna :P

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  2. true love is the veer zaara types... you may have been in love before... but if it doesnt hurt u a bit to see 'em again... it wasnt TRUE!

    thankfully, i found a point where i can confidently say, you arent my soul brother!

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  3. True love is abt being true to some1 when u r with that person...Its not abt crying to see that person later ...
    It is actually the weakness not love which is shown by this kind of reaction..
    N veer zaraa is not true love definitely...its a story :)

    N yeah its gud v have some differences...
    So v r same same but different different :) :) ..great :)

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  4. true love is selfless... & it always hurts to not be with them.

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  5. Exactly...true love is selfless...
    It shouldnot hurt..one should be happy that if the other person left me its for her happiness...n now she is happy without me n with some1 else...
    Self love is also selfless..so dere should be disappointment of not being with that person..but hurt..naa...

    N veer zaraa story...i guess i will take it offline..have loads to say abt it :D

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  6. true love makes the lover more imp than u... u may be happy for their happiness.. but u will always have an emptiness...
    & veer zaara WAS TRUE LOVE... shut up! :X

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  7. Veer zaraa,DDLJ, DTPH,KKHH, all d YRJ and KJ movies r fictional love stories...far far away from reality...it feels dreamy n romantic watchin dem..dats all..
    Chalte Chalte is an example of a gud love story i think :)

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  8. i would have believed that they are fictional too... if only i dint see 1 happenin in real life... i know live examples of REAL & TRUE LOVE STORIES... so again... chubbe! :P

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  9. N i have seen many love stories gone into ashes bcoz of following what is told in these movies :P

    There are REAL N TRUE LOVE STORIES in dis world...dats what am saying...but those ones...naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa :P

    maaan jaa geet aur gaane gaana band kar aisi movies ke :P :P

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  10. i dunno what ur point is...
    but my point is...
    if u truly love some1...
    not havn em by ur side & lookin at them will HURT no matter what!!!

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  11. N i feel its d weakness not love if it hurts...
    Love is not abt winning love back ...its abt loving...sacrificing...letting the other person go away happily..n being happy in seein her happy....
    Love makes a person strong not weak :)
    N yeah..love is always true n dere is nothin like if love is true it will stay forever or u will end up together with ur lover...

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  12. yes u wil...
    if it is true love...
    it gives u the power to fight all odds...
    if its 1 way true love, you will always hurt remembering that u fought but the other 1 did not do enuf...
    can we pls stop this convo... cuz i really dont wanna get it\n2 all the shit anymore!

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  13. Yeah..obviously v can..
    But whatever I said..u can ignore rather than calling it shit..

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  14. i called the fight shit...
    not ur pt of view dodo!

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  15. Love can happen only once..if it happens again thn love dont exist...!!!!!

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  16. true love happens once...
    love is overrated for liking.... so it can happen again!

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  17. I totally agree wid u..bt have u ever heard a term called false love?? if its false thn its nt love and if its love its true..!!

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  18. there is ntn like false love...
    its juz that sometimes its not love... just liking... or an addiction... its not false... it just isent true...
    its like... just like its not necessary for it to be math just becuz its not physics, similarly, its not necessary that the it was false juz cuz it wasnt true love!

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